Friday, February 13, 2009
It is V day tml so i decided to come up with a V-Day special topic.
These are not for those who is currently in a relationship but rather , some way or signs that can explain certain facts.
This topic is directed to my 9 Inch brother who recently express that he is
very lost and feeling empty. This is to give you some encouragement and some thinking to do.
The story below is quoted through HWZ forum and i think it is very meaningful
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ANAN84:
Hi bros and sis's over here....i got some questions to ask u all pls enlighten me can?how do u all define dating when a boy and girl go out alone...the girl already knows the boy likes her ( the boy did a very screwed up confession) but after that the girl took the initiative to ask him out.. and sometimes the boy ask the girl to go out she agrees but when he hine the girl to go out for valentine she also hines that she is not free.. she need to stays at auntie's house take care of new born baby.. i am very sure she is not bluffing me...so in the end will that guy wins her heart eventually?or they will remains at this status forever until a 3rd party come up... no matter which side? pls enlightene me.... thanks
Some of the response :
We must learnt things the hard way. No two relationships/friendships are the same.There's no ten-years series. There's no answer at the back of the book.There is no good advice, giving you high hopes and then when the girl pull a stunt, you get heartbroken. It's not predictable at all.
u can try asking her for clarification. does she only want to keep you as friend? or is she still deciding/letting u court her?u can try making some big gesture that on the social norm, friends do not do for friends. if she react neutrally, probably you still have a chance. if she react negatively, then you are just a friend to her.but the most impt thing is, if you want the truth, you must be able to handle the truth no matter what it is. are you prepared?
Dating is when 2 person who show interests in each other go out together to try and get to know the other party better. It doesn't necessarily leads to a relationship.
You have a lot of things to talk about with her,because you have established rapport with her. The reason why you find it so comfortable to talk with friends rather than someone you just met is because you already built that rapport with your friends.
Above is some ideas which can be view as hints or tips but please do not buy all as said , love is unpredictable.
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Anyway , I am sad that my brother is leaving for AU again . 9 long months i will miss you . i miss you on climbing onto mi during basketball and always driving so close behind mi in case i try to shag u off . lol ...
You have an outstanding factor which will help u pull one off.
Your $$ charisma is strong , so don worry about that . Looks and other factors is not so important anymore. One day , if you manage to drive out your dad BMW 7 series , i think u can pull off your mark . lol.
A reporter from the Chinese daily posed this question to 20 men and women. Most of them said that having a salary that is good enough to sustain your lifestyle would be sufficient. However, most agreed that $4,000 to $5,000 is a "reasonable amount" if one is thinking of setting up a family.
Lastly , wishing all couples a Happy V-day .
To gui and Fai , have a good happy relationship ahead . Cheers.
P/s : u gave in too easily...
These are not for those who is currently in a relationship but rather , some way or signs that can explain certain facts.
This topic is directed to my 9 Inch brother who recently express that he is
very lost and feeling empty. This is to give you some encouragement and some thinking to do.
The story below is quoted through HWZ forum and i think it is very meaningful
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ANAN84:
Hi bros and sis's over here....i got some questions to ask u all pls enlighten me can?how do u all define dating when a boy and girl go out alone...the girl already knows the boy likes her ( the boy did a very screwed up confession) but after that the girl took the initiative to ask him out.. and sometimes the boy ask the girl to go out she agrees but when he hine the girl to go out for valentine she also hines that she is not free.. she need to stays at auntie's house take care of new born baby.. i am very sure she is not bluffing me...so in the end will that guy wins her heart eventually?or they will remains at this status forever until a 3rd party come up... no matter which side? pls enlightene me.... thanks
Some of the response :
We must learnt things the hard way. No two relationships/friendships are the same.There's no ten-years series. There's no answer at the back of the book.There is no good advice, giving you high hopes and then when the girl pull a stunt, you get heartbroken. It's not predictable at all.
u can try asking her for clarification. does she only want to keep you as friend? or is she still deciding/letting u court her?u can try making some big gesture that on the social norm, friends do not do for friends. if she react neutrally, probably you still have a chance. if she react negatively, then you are just a friend to her.but the most impt thing is, if you want the truth, you must be able to handle the truth no matter what it is. are you prepared?
Dating is when 2 person who show interests in each other go out together to try and get to know the other party better. It doesn't necessarily leads to a relationship.
You have a lot of things to talk about with her,because you have established rapport with her. The reason why you find it so comfortable to talk with friends rather than someone you just met is because you already built that rapport with your friends.
Above is some ideas which can be view as hints or tips but please do not buy all as said , love is unpredictable.
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Anyway , I am sad that my brother is leaving for AU again . 9 long months i will miss you . i miss you on climbing onto mi during basketball and always driving so close behind mi in case i try to shag u off . lol ...
You have an outstanding factor which will help u pull one off.
Your $$ charisma is strong , so don worry about that . Looks and other factors is not so important anymore. One day , if you manage to drive out your dad BMW 7 series , i think u can pull off your mark . lol.
A reporter from the Chinese daily posed this question to 20 men and women. Most of them said that having a salary that is good enough to sustain your lifestyle would be sufficient. However, most agreed that $4,000 to $5,000 is a "reasonable amount" if one is thinking of setting up a family.
Lastly , wishing all couples a Happy V-day .
To gui and Fai , have a good happy relationship ahead . Cheers.
P/s : u gave in too easily...
Labels: Contentment is key. Money is a factor but it should not be the main consideration.
what we could have been, 4:59 AM.
